The holidays are a time of joy, yet they can create anxiety if you have a difficult family member. Here’s how to make the most of your time together and not lose your cool.
• Avoid controversial topics like politics, religion and social issues.
• Consider things you have in common and prepare topics of conversation ahead of time.
• Rehearse ways to switch topics. For example, say “Thanks for your concern” or “Let me think about it,” and then change the conversation.